“How to Stop Social Media Taking Over Your Day
- ONLY SHARE WHAT IS SAFE TO SHARE – Once you connect to people outside your close friends and family you need to restrict the information you place in these networks. If in doubt, keep it to yourself.
- Observe before following.
- If people are taking too much of your time, drop them, and do not feel any guilt about it. There are no rules that say you have to follow everyone who follows you!
- Pick your venues and do not try to be active in all of them.
- Do not take part in time-wasting activities, such as quizzes and zombie games.
- Set Social Media time and log off when that time is over.
- Grow your network selectively and steadily – Learn how much activity you can manage.
- Use tools where appropriate.
Turn off beeps and popup message alerts, they just take you away from work. In my case using TweetDeck has helped me a great deal (when the thing doesn’t freeze on me) because it puts front and center the most important stuff while keeping less priority stuff accessible.” ~excerpt from http://www.chrisg.com/
There’s more where that came from but I’ll let you go through it yourself.
There are a bazzzillion companies out there, at least it feels like a bazzzillion, selling you stuff you can do for FREE. I agree that, if you can afford it, they will bring the job back on time and within budget. But you need to know so much just to pick the successful candidate company. And you run the risk of being taken for a ride you can’t afford.
That has been my bete noire: I trusted the wrong people and I’m in the hole now. It’s a deep hole, too.
I subscribe to the philosophy of the Renaissance Wo/Man: be the expert of only one thing: knowing where you can get the answers to your questions. That will make you an expert of everything.
The answer? Here are my do’s and don’ts:
Do the research yourself. Hunt up as many forums on the subject and ask questions. Check out Google Asks and Yahoo Asks.
Do ask questions.
Do as much as you can yourself.
My Biggest DO? DO use the common sense you were given at birth.
Don’t hire the first company that reaches you.
Don’t believe that only they can do things you are perfectly capable of doing yourself.
There is so much to know that it is easy to become frozen, not knowing where you should take your first step. It can be overwhelming. Each evening, before closing down for the day, decide what your goal for tomorrow will be. Scribble a quick reminder on your computer so you can get to work on that goal even before you finish your first coffee.
Now, focus on that one thing. There will be lots of things to distract you but always come back to that one goal. If achieving that goal will take several days, then stick with that goal until it is completed.
Send yourself a ‘status report’ at the end of each business day. Read it the next morning while wearing your ‘CEO Hat.’